ImLive.com has a sister site called Sexier, I haven't had the time to use it yet, but i signed up and the site is really nice. So if Imlive works for you, Sexier should work well too. Just thought i would share
I'm posting this on behalf of someone who came to me with this question and needs some honest advise. I'm inclined to tell this lady she is beautiful and that confidence is way sexier than any "great hips" - but I honestly don't know how to answer this one because of the "deep depression scar...