BBW Cam Model Insecurities - feeling ugly

[dayanadiva]

Hello , I’m a new ebony bbw cam model and I’ve been Camming for about 3-4 months now. I had some good days , but it could be better.

When I look in other cam model rooms, who are slimmer , I see they make hundreds and thousands of dollars and my best day was a $200 day. Other than that Every day I make about $10-$50…I think my weight is holding me back, I feel uglier and undesirable. I’m thinking about taking a break and come back when I lose weight .

I feel like my insecurities are showing through the screen. I feel I would make more if I lose weight .

From what I see, slimmer girls make more money … what are your thoughts?

 

[annaddictive]

There is a market for every type of body I this industry. Not all paying customers are interested in the slim models. Chances are the girls you are seeing making a ton of money have been doing this for longer than 3-4 months and have built their following outside of the streaming platforms. Do you use social media or any other sites to help market yourself? I understand it can be discouraging. I'm also a BBW and it can be hard to fall into that trap of wanting to compare yourself to other models, especially when you're still new.

Also, Adinna is correct! If you feel your insecurities are getting the best of you that's likely being picked up by your potential customers. Confidence is key! Fake it till you make it! Losing weight could help your confidence, or it could also bring out other insecurities. Try working on loving yourself NOW. Maybe make some eating changes and incorporate a exercise regimen If you don't already. Not for weight loss, but for health and to boost your feelings of self-worth.

I know this was long, but definitely reach out If you need to talk. There are a lot of amazing people here and we want to support you and help you be successful.