I left this note for a fellow cam model who is beyond frustrated with their cam situation, and success. And frustrated with the advice we give. I think I got blocked, which was surprising. Smiley :O I didnt mean to make mad. But I really wanted to share this to everyone, because this is a place where WE ALL can say how we feel, censor free. I'll apologize now if you think its rude for me to repost. But it was my own comment so....
"Honey, It seems pretty clear that right now you are unable to dedicate the time it takes to make a reliable income out of web cam. Smiley
It's okay! We aint mad at ya! But NOTHING we can say will make you have this time, or suddenly make you have a secure internet connection, or the patience needed to succeed. I too have a husband and a child and suffer from connectivity issues. I work it out! But you just keep telling us all the reasons things AREN'T working. Even going so far as to judge other girls who show whatever they want in their chat rooms. Pretty sure WE are in charge of our cams, and what we show. It doesn't make for a lesser person just because they choose to show more skin. What is wrong with them deciding for themselves, and making it work? Let them do them, and whatever works for them. What works for YOU is going to be different, and it is up to YOU to figure it out. We all get it. What else do you want us to do? I sit on can when it's slow and smile. Because GUESS WHAT?! It's slow for everyone. But If you don't have time to invest to make it through the slow times, to making money on cam, then you wont be making money on cam. How can you gain a following, fanbase, regulars, when you only have 4 hours a week? This is not by any means an attack. I dont even know you, But I feel for your frustration. But maybe this is a reality check? Because I keep seeing you WANTING for the same things, but just making EXCUSES/failure explinations out of every solution. What kind of answers are you expecting? You CAN be the solution to the problems, but we can't show you how to "pull it off'. Im sorry, truly, if this hurts you. But we can't fix it for you. Choose your attitude. Good Luck
"Honey, It seems pretty clear that right now you are unable to dedicate the time it takes to make a reliable income out of web cam. Smiley
It's okay! We aint mad at ya! But NOTHING we can say will make you have this time, or suddenly make you have a secure internet connection, or the patience needed to succeed. I too have a husband and a child and suffer from connectivity issues. I work it out! But you just keep telling us all the reasons things AREN'T working. Even going so far as to judge other girls who show whatever they want in their chat rooms. Pretty sure WE are in charge of our cams, and what we show. It doesn't make for a lesser person just because they choose to show more skin. What is wrong with them deciding for themselves, and making it work? Let them do them, and whatever works for them. What works for YOU is going to be different, and it is up to YOU to figure it out. We all get it. What else do you want us to do? I sit on can when it's slow and smile. Because GUESS WHAT?! It's slow for everyone. But If you don't have time to invest to make it through the slow times, to making money on cam, then you wont be making money on cam. How can you gain a following, fanbase, regulars, when you only have 4 hours a week? This is not by any means an attack. I dont even know you, But I feel for your frustration. But maybe this is a reality check? Because I keep seeing you WANTING for the same things, but just making EXCUSES/failure explinations out of every solution. What kind of answers are you expecting? You CAN be the solution to the problems, but we can't show you how to "pull it off'. Im sorry, truly, if this hurts you. But we can't fix it for you. Choose your attitude. Good Luck