LusciousSara
Hero Member
Being a cam girl means that you're a public person, it means that you interact with lots of people, all 'shapes and sizes', with different points of view and multiple personalities. There are people who will adore you, worship you, and people that will make fun of you, people that don't like you, people that are jealous of who you are and what you do or are just plain mean and have a fetish of being a-holes.
Nothing you say or do can prevent bullies to speak their mind. Dealing with cyberbullying as a cam girl is a common thing and it's one of the reasons that many girls quit this job. You need to have a strong character, a clear mind and stay true to who you are to succeed in this line of work, especially when it comes to bullies.
And it's not just some advice that you can only use on cam. It's something that you can use in you real life as well. And if you're a parent, it's even more important to teach your child about bullying and how to prevent it or don't let it affect him/her.
First of all, let's talk about what cyberbullying means to a cam girl. When you're online, people can harass you, can make you feel like you're not good enough, not pretty enough, not worthy of being online. Coping with cyber bullies can be difficult because it can happen at any time of day. That means that they can act when you're online and when you're offline. Cyberbullying includes messages on your social media accounts, emailing or texting threatening or nasty messages, posting embarrassing or humiliating pictures or videos, sending texts repeatedly in your chat room, making fake profiles in your name, posting personal information and making abusive comments about you.
Second, make sure you're not a bully yourself. Even if you're not the one that starts bullying, you can easily become part of it and therefore, a bully, when you participate in hurtful conversations about other cam models out there. Try not to engage in that sort of conversations. You know how much words hurt you, so don't hurt anyone else by making fun of other models. Even if you feel like in the cam model business the competition is fierce, becoming a part of cyberbullying isn't the answer.
All in all, keep in mind that cyber bullies thrive on your reactions and your feelings and their main goal is to get you upset. Don't give them that satisfaction. If they see you're strong, if they see they can't break you, if you ignore them and they realize they can't hurt you, they will eventually stop. And always remember, no one has the power to say you're not beautiful, no one can tell you who you are if they don't know you. So, let the haters hate and keep up the good work.
Nothing you say or do can prevent bullies to speak their mind. Dealing with cyberbullying as a cam girl is a common thing and it's one of the reasons that many girls quit this job. You need to have a strong character, a clear mind and stay true to who you are to succeed in this line of work, especially when it comes to bullies.
And it's not just some advice that you can only use on cam. It's something that you can use in you real life as well. And if you're a parent, it's even more important to teach your child about bullying and how to prevent it or don't let it affect him/her.
First of all, let's talk about what cyberbullying means to a cam girl. When you're online, people can harass you, can make you feel like you're not good enough, not pretty enough, not worthy of being online. Coping with cyber bullies can be difficult because it can happen at any time of day. That means that they can act when you're online and when you're offline. Cyberbullying includes messages on your social media accounts, emailing or texting threatening or nasty messages, posting embarrassing or humiliating pictures or videos, sending texts repeatedly in your chat room, making fake profiles in your name, posting personal information and making abusive comments about you.
Second, make sure you're not a bully yourself. Even if you're not the one that starts bullying, you can easily become part of it and therefore, a bully, when you participate in hurtful conversations about other cam models out there. Try not to engage in that sort of conversations. You know how much words hurt you, so don't hurt anyone else by making fun of other models. Even if you feel like in the cam model business the competition is fierce, becoming a part of cyberbullying isn't the answer.
All in all, keep in mind that cyber bullies thrive on your reactions and your feelings and their main goal is to get you upset. Don't give them that satisfaction. If they see you're strong, if they see they can't break you, if you ignore them and they realize they can't hurt you, they will eventually stop. And always remember, no one has the power to say you're not beautiful, no one can tell you who you are if they don't know you. So, let the haters hate and keep up the good work.
