Did I do something wrong here?

mischka

Hero Member
I’m new to Streammate and caming in general as a customer, not a model.

I’m still trying to navigate everything from tipping the right amount to when to be chatty and when to stay silent.

A model kicked me out of her room last night and I’m not sure what I did. I’m willing to own up and say I made a mistake if people on here think I did.

I’m still trying to figure this out. I’m used to downloading clips and buying custom videos.

I’m on SM last night and notice a model wearing an article of clothing I have a huge fetish for, but don’t see much on SM. It’s the first time I’ve visited this model.

I enter her room and she’s just sitting there staring at the camera. I wait about 10-15 seconds and nothing. No verbal acknowledgment that I entered. She doesn’t write anything.

No one else is in the room chatting with her, so it’s not like she’s ignoring me for others.

I wait about 30 seconds and nothing. So I type “How are you?” Nothing. She doesn’t write back, doesn’t respond verbally. Just stares at the camera.

I wait another 15-20 seconds and I type “you look hot tonight.” Still nothing. Doesn’t write back, doesn’t respond verbally.

Now a minute has passed and nothing. Just stares at the camera and keeps ignoring me.

So I think “maybe she just doesn’t realize I’m here. I’ll wait a little bit and maybe she’ll notice me.”

So about the 2 minute mark she still doesn’t say or do anything but sends me her Gold Menu. This is the first indication I got she even knows I’m in the room. The rest of the time she sits there, staring at the camera.

I type, “I guess you’re not chatty tonight.”

And she says “I don’t talk to freeloaders” and kicks me out.

I admit I was in her room for 2 minutes without tipping. But I was waiting for her to do something, anything to acknowledge I was there. All she did was stare at the screen and ignore me until she kicked me out.

I’m happy to tip and tip well. But the model has to do something. I’m not asking her to flash her breasts or play with herself. I just wanted a “hello” or “how are you?”

So did I do something wrong here?

Also is it possible she was confusing me with someone else who has freeloaded in her studio? Like I said it was the first time I’ve ever been to her room.

I’m just trying to figure out what happened so I don’t make this mistake again.

thank you to all who reply.
 
I admittedly hate "How are you?" because it's like, tiring to respond to the same basic thing over and over and over for however long I'm on. But I get why it's asked. Maybe you caught her when she had no patience left for it, and I get that too. Good sales tactic? idk, but I understand why it might happen.

Did she send the tip menu specifically to you, or to the chat in general? I spam my chat messages often with my basic sales stuff, just so that everyone passing in and out gets a chance to see it. It's just an ad.

What do these two things have in common? Streamate members filter in and out of rooms fairly quickly, the turnover is fast, it can be a bit repetitive on our end and also maybe for anyone spending much time in our free chat area. SM is not the most social of cam platforms.
 
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