Guys are usually at a disadvantage on cam sites

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Guys are usually at a disadvantage on cam sites, because most are geared toward (and rightfully so) the women who cam there. Your current site sounds too restrictive, and it sounds like you enjoyed cam4 even more. I'd go to a place where you are comfortable and enjoy yourself. Your clientele can sniff out when you are agitated and act accordingly (or just leave). I cam, but I don't do it for a living. So when I get on, I do what I want and if I get tips, well bravo lol. And I've gotten some tips. Even went private with someone. I enjoy it, and if I were doing it for a living I'd make sure I'd have fun doing it, too. It's not supposed to be stressful. Your clients come on to escape or get off (or both), and that's what you should cater to. Relax and have fun, and the tips will roll in.