How to treat a new costumer with no money?

[celinapowell]

Hi, I had 5 new customers with no money in my chat room yesterday, I always talk with them, plus some payng member tipping me and I just start to give them more attention respect the customers with no money. After some tips some of this member with no money start to write on my chat that I just want money from him and this is why i sopped to chatting with him.

I just said to them that is my job, and if i don't recive any tip, simply is hard to talk with you all night, while I have paying member on my chat that ask for more attention. ( I just write to this member in private message) and them just start to spam on my chat that i just want money and i did't care about them and other general pharse...
So in the end they just made me in the condiction to being banned from my chatroom.

In this case, what is the good way to treat this new member with no money? How much free chat time i have to give to them? And if i there are a lot paying member, is better just ignore this new member?
Thanks

 

[emilydam]

Everyones hustle is different so for me i never talk about this as being my job or about money needed to be given for my attention. To a large amount of my paying cliente thats not what this is and im not gonna fuck myself out of a possible 500 to put a poor person in their place. Everyones getting a stimulus check from some nation so if he doesnt have money right now its because he hasnet had a job in the last 2 years. Hes dusty ass barely deserves a hello, your acknowledgment is really charity work.
I personally tell those type of people this is not christian mingle, if youre looking for love this is not the place for you, you should go to where youre a better fit and I silence them and move on with the rest of crowd. The term for what he is doing is called negging, hes low key trying to manipulate you. Right now or at that moment he wants your undivided attention and for however many min you gave it to him and the effect is clearing still weighing on you however many hours later. Youre here for money, anything else is a waste of time so do not give it.