I hardly know where to begin. Me and matt have been together for 4 years, the past year we had problems and we separated for a little while and while we were separated I dated a guy my old best friend had grown up with. It just seemed like the thing to do at the time so I did. Me and matt have been on again and off again for awhile and we have finally made the progress we needed in our relationship in order to thrive and be good parents. The ex has started so much drama in our personal lives, guilt trips manipulations, and putting a strain on my relationship with matt... So I stopped being his friend but made a mistake and took him home from class the other day because I was having a bad day and I don't have anyone but Matt and the friends we have made on cb.
Now he is starting to mess with our CB shows.
One day I slipped up and let something about it come out and was just a complete idiot about it, in a nutshell. So he found us on there, god knows how long he was watching... and then fb messages matt pretty much telling him that I knew he was in the room, when I didn't and that he had a nice figure.
What a friggin creep.
So we blocked our state and didn't think much of it as far as him following us on there, we didn't realize that it wouldn't block him even though he is in our state. Tonight we are just sitting around on there with our regulars and he comes in and introduces himself by his full name. We are worried that he is going to get on as other users and completely sabotage our whole thing we have going for us on this site.
It's a matter of safety for us to not be known by our names as we have a kid you know? Well I'm sure you do. lol
We Banned him from the room immediately. but he is still following us and can probably get into the room and all that good stuff. I am not sure if he is following our twitter. I feel like all this hard work is being jeopardized by this fake friend who's trying to ruin what he couldn't have with me, not to sound vain.
I feel fucked and not in a good way.
We know that there are risks and things like that in doing this but I don't want him coming on there and outting us to everyone just because he is a moron and I was dumb enough to leave my mouth open.
He was my best friend for two years, his brothers were my other best friends... We clicked instantly and the help they gave me when I didn't have Matt or any family I could never repay in a million life times. And I shared the only secret I had with him and we got into a huge fight and he used it against me. I flipped shit and cut all ties I had with him this past month and he has been trying to work his way back into my life in anyway that he can.
I messaged CB and let them know what was going on. Hopefully they can get him to unfollow us or something I'm not sure how it goes but....
If the state you are in is knowingly blocked and you know that the performer exists on the site, could you just make up a new or non registered profile and then be from a different state or is this the actual state you're in being made known to CB privately. I mean if he can just make another profile or get on without one at all what would be the point in blocking my state?
On top of this he goes to my college and has a course with me. I know he is probably just going to tell everyone I am doing this, so I deleted my ELM and a couple other things and I'm only going to be on cb and sm. I don't even know if he knows we are on SM.
I don't know what to do. I'm not so worried about my mom or anyone finding out, pretty much just nervous about how this is going to effect my academic career in terms of judgement if the professor were to find out or if his family finds out.
My ex was trying to make me feel horrible about being a mom and doing this at one point. I think it's just bullshit and I got so mad at what he was saying. I think it's awesome that I have the ability to do whatever I can to make money for my kids future and our well-being and fun time. I hope to raise her to do what she wants, and not judge people like we all get judged; I'm not saying that this is the ideal job I have in mind for her but it's people like him that make this world so damn hard to live around now.
I am just not sure what to do or how to fix this giant screw up. I'm in need of some advice or personal insight and what camming has done in your guys' lives. I feel like I let Matt down. We've worked really hard to get to our point right now. Have you had issues with things like this? Or other stuff?
I just wanna curl up in a little ball and hibernate til idk when.
And also sorry for the book lol but I gotta talk it out because if not I'm gonna end up just freaking out on him. I don't know if I should get a restraining order on him because this is literally effecting everything in my life now or if it's just going to stir up more shit. I think it sucks that we can be trying our best to get ahead with all the bills we have fell behind on and wanting more for our kid and still be seen as bad parents in any way. I spend more time with my fiance and my daughter that I have been able to, and I love every minute of it. It's long days and a lot of work but I think that this is an awesome opportunity we have.
What would you do in my situation?
Now he is starting to mess with our CB shows.
One day I slipped up and let something about it come out and was just a complete idiot about it, in a nutshell. So he found us on there, god knows how long he was watching... and then fb messages matt pretty much telling him that I knew he was in the room, when I didn't and that he had a nice figure.
What a friggin creep.
So we blocked our state and didn't think much of it as far as him following us on there, we didn't realize that it wouldn't block him even though he is in our state. Tonight we are just sitting around on there with our regulars and he comes in and introduces himself by his full name. We are worried that he is going to get on as other users and completely sabotage our whole thing we have going for us on this site.
It's a matter of safety for us to not be known by our names as we have a kid you know? Well I'm sure you do. lol
We Banned him from the room immediately. but he is still following us and can probably get into the room and all that good stuff. I am not sure if he is following our twitter. I feel like all this hard work is being jeopardized by this fake friend who's trying to ruin what he couldn't have with me, not to sound vain.
I feel fucked and not in a good way.
We know that there are risks and things like that in doing this but I don't want him coming on there and outting us to everyone just because he is a moron and I was dumb enough to leave my mouth open.
He was my best friend for two years, his brothers were my other best friends... We clicked instantly and the help they gave me when I didn't have Matt or any family I could never repay in a million life times. And I shared the only secret I had with him and we got into a huge fight and he used it against me. I flipped shit and cut all ties I had with him this past month and he has been trying to work his way back into my life in anyway that he can.
I messaged CB and let them know what was going on. Hopefully they can get him to unfollow us or something I'm not sure how it goes but....
If the state you are in is knowingly blocked and you know that the performer exists on the site, could you just make up a new or non registered profile and then be from a different state or is this the actual state you're in being made known to CB privately. I mean if he can just make another profile or get on without one at all what would be the point in blocking my state?
On top of this he goes to my college and has a course with me. I know he is probably just going to tell everyone I am doing this, so I deleted my ELM and a couple other things and I'm only going to be on cb and sm. I don't even know if he knows we are on SM.
I don't know what to do. I'm not so worried about my mom or anyone finding out, pretty much just nervous about how this is going to effect my academic career in terms of judgement if the professor were to find out or if his family finds out.
My ex was trying to make me feel horrible about being a mom and doing this at one point. I think it's just bullshit and I got so mad at what he was saying. I think it's awesome that I have the ability to do whatever I can to make money for my kids future and our well-being and fun time. I hope to raise her to do what she wants, and not judge people like we all get judged; I'm not saying that this is the ideal job I have in mind for her but it's people like him that make this world so damn hard to live around now.
I am just not sure what to do or how to fix this giant screw up. I'm in need of some advice or personal insight and what camming has done in your guys' lives. I feel like I let Matt down. We've worked really hard to get to our point right now. Have you had issues with things like this? Or other stuff?
I just wanna curl up in a little ball and hibernate til idk when.
And also sorry for the book lol but I gotta talk it out because if not I'm gonna end up just freaking out on him. I don't know if I should get a restraining order on him because this is literally effecting everything in my life now or if it's just going to stir up more shit. I think it sucks that we can be trying our best to get ahead with all the bills we have fell behind on and wanting more for our kid and still be seen as bad parents in any way. I spend more time with my fiance and my daughter that I have been able to, and I love every minute of it. It's long days and a lot of work but I think that this is an awesome opportunity we have.
What would you do in my situation?
