I'm soooooo very sorry to hear that Nikki! You are such a wonderful asset to Streamate.
What were the details of what happened?
Did you put your email personal addy within the reply message to him?
If so, had you cloaked it? Meaning, jumbled the letters or left some out:
Nikkicamgirl - g m ai l
If you both jumbled your email addresses, then that busts my theory that SM is using a bot to scan the entire database of every models messages for triggers that look like private email addresses. Then they have a human go through the actual message to read it & decide if the model was stealing customers.
IF they're using a bot program to scan the email database (and I don't know that they are), then it would trigger inspection of the email if a GUY sends us his email address too (asking for Skype shows, panties, videos, whatever). Answering his query with your cloaked address wouldn't help hide you if his complete address was there for the bot to find.
Does that make sense?
I don't know anything about how the Streamate is watching our emails, but if I ran a company like this, that's how I'd do it, with a scanning program.
Possible words the bot might scan for, would be email companies, of course (yahoo, gmail, hotmail, live, etc.). but also anything with .com, or maybe a shortened form of an email addy, like gm for gmail, or hm for hotmail.
Got any thoughts or other theories, or chinks in my bot program theory? I'd love to hear them! Thanks