I have been camming on Chaturbate for almost two months now. I have lots of followers and I gain more every time I'm on. When I first started, a lot of people on Chaturbate told me that I was going to do great on the website and I had a good look. It was really nice to hear even though I'm sure they tell every model the same thing.
So, I was struggling with a lot because I didn't have too many toys when I started. I had one vibrator. But now thanks to a wonderful viewer, I have my vibrator, my hitachi, my rabbit and some other little stuff. I wanted more stuff to change up my shows because I didn't want to be doing the same thing every time I was on cam. Once I had more toys, my confidence started to go up. But over the past couple weeks, I've had people who have been watching me since day one tell me that they have "advice" for me. One said that he just stumbled upon an article and thought there was some good information for me. Anyways, so they always have something to say. "You should smile more", "you shouldn't charge so much", "you shouldn't charge so little", "you'll have to show a little skin to get viewers in", "don't show too much for free". It is soooo frustrating. At first, I tried to take a bit of everyone's advice. And yes, some of those things did help but they kept finding something else to bring up. I don't get it. It was bothering me so much at one point that I got really depressed. I felt like I wasn't good enough and there was nothing I could do to fix me.
I talked to my husband about all that stuff and he basically just told me that I should do things how I want to do them. Not how these people would like to see it done. There are plenty of successful models who have done what these guys have mentioned to me so that's why I'm quick to trying to fix whatever. I hate having the awkward silence in my room and I feel like that only happens to me. I also think that because those people have to tried to offer me "help", that it makes me feel like I'm screwing up and not doing a good job, which feels like it's only affecting me lol.
I've read hundreds of blogs and articles. I've been reading the posts on the forum here nonstop. I learn something new about camming every day. Every time I'm on. I'm just confused as to who I should be listening to. The people who watch me on a regular basis or myself? If both, how do I handle viewers who are insulting me and they don't even realize it? How do I keep my shows different and interesting?
I hope this all made sense.
So, I was struggling with a lot because I didn't have too many toys when I started. I had one vibrator. But now thanks to a wonderful viewer, I have my vibrator, my hitachi, my rabbit and some other little stuff. I wanted more stuff to change up my shows because I didn't want to be doing the same thing every time I was on cam. Once I had more toys, my confidence started to go up. But over the past couple weeks, I've had people who have been watching me since day one tell me that they have "advice" for me. One said that he just stumbled upon an article and thought there was some good information for me. Anyways, so they always have something to say. "You should smile more", "you shouldn't charge so much", "you shouldn't charge so little", "you'll have to show a little skin to get viewers in", "don't show too much for free". It is soooo frustrating. At first, I tried to take a bit of everyone's advice. And yes, some of those things did help but they kept finding something else to bring up. I don't get it. It was bothering me so much at one point that I got really depressed. I felt like I wasn't good enough and there was nothing I could do to fix me.
I talked to my husband about all that stuff and he basically just told me that I should do things how I want to do them. Not how these people would like to see it done. There are plenty of successful models who have done what these guys have mentioned to me so that's why I'm quick to trying to fix whatever. I hate having the awkward silence in my room and I feel like that only happens to me. I also think that because those people have to tried to offer me "help", that it makes me feel like I'm screwing up and not doing a good job, which feels like it's only affecting me lol.
I've read hundreds of blogs and articles. I've been reading the posts on the forum here nonstop. I learn something new about camming every day. Every time I'm on. I'm just confused as to who I should be listening to. The people who watch me on a regular basis or myself? If both, how do I handle viewers who are insulting me and they don't even realize it? How do I keep my shows different and interesting?
I hope this all made sense.