I need some serious advice about how cam girls/guys in relationships work

Suemmy

Sr. Member
Ok, so I've mentioned to my fiance that I'm interested in doing non nude camming- more because I'm interested in learning about human sexuality than money, but a little extra cash would be amazing. I'm bisexual and over the years in our relationship I've discovered more about myself and how much more kinky I really am. My fiance is a man and he hasn't told me (yet) that it would be a deal breaker for us if I did this, yet if he DID, I would be very upset because I would feel restricted in being who I am. His main thing is the thought of guys getting off watching me (in lingerie) makes him very jealous. I want to know if anyone out there has been in a similar situation, how you handled it, and if you think that as a partner in a relationship with someone I love, that if he straight up says NO, if I should just delete my accounts and forget about it. I don't WANT to though, and the feminist inside me gets pissed just thinking about it. I've told my mother about all this and her main thing is: if HE wanted to do this, how would I feel? Answer: I'd be supportive and jumping for joy. That would never happen; I mentioned couples do well in this business and he said NO right away to that one. Does anyone have advice on how to handle this, how to get him on board? What did you do if you went through something like this? I hope someone has advice.. Thanks everyone
 

Suemmy

Sr. Member
I'm kinda in the same boat as you are. I have been camming for over 3 years when i met my SO and although he accepts it now, he clearly said that if/when we move in together/get married/have kids i can't keep doing this.
I too would like to know how to make men understand that camming is still possible even if in a couple...
I hope someone else has more advice.
 
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