I think I'm being too nice. Creepy BBW lovers. Looking for a new site.

bongacams

Hero Member
I joined justbbwcams, thinking that it would be a good place for a fat chick like me to be. I don't have a whole lot of insecurities about my size, and the guys that I date do like 'em big, but I've never experienced this.

Today was the first day I could really sit down for a decent chunk of time in front of a decent camera and work, before I was just popping in and out for 30 min or so at a time to learn how everything worked.

Today I haven't done very well. I have, however, met a bunch of creeps in the four hours I was on. I understand people asking about my weight and height but one guy in free asked me a series of questions about whether or not I'd broken/ gotten stuck in places including chairs, doorways, small cars, bathroom stalls and kayaks. (kayaks specifically? WTF )Smiley :S

I try to be polite and answer the odd questions but it just keeps getting more frustrating. Answering feels more productive than staring at an empty room or at a room where people with no chips are just staring back at you and not talking but the net result is pretty well the same. I feel creeped out and my wallet isn't getting any love.

Should I be telling these guys to fuck off? I feel like I should be telling these guys to fuck off, but I don't want to give myself a reputation for being unapproachable.

Are there any sites with more/ better quality traffic (people who actually have money, only one person entered my room with chips ALL DAY) where a fat chick would fit in? Or is this to be expected anywhere I go? I'm still pending on streamate.
 

bongacams

Hero Member
You will find guys like this on every site. I get it all the time. Somebody tip her so she can eat, are you working to support your meth habit?, ect. I can't say I like it when they say all that, but you get use to it after awhile. Just remember, at times like that, the ban/kick button is your friend. Don't let them get to you. They are just trying to cover their own insecurities. Don't say a word, just ban and continue to be happy.
 
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