skylarmaexo
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I've been doing a GFE (minus any sexy stuff) for almost 3 months with a client. We will call him X. He tips well (makes up about 50% of my monthly income), and doesn't really tip for anything specific. He travels a lot and wants to have a few drinks once a week over Snap or WhatsApp. So I'm like sure, this is great, I don't even have to masturbate, I make money, usually have someone to talk to (I'm on CB), and I genuinely enjoy chatting with him! We chatted last night (5 or 6 hours) and I thought my real life (long-term, live in) boyfriend seemed a bit upset, but I never thought it was a problem. He knows this is my job, he never has a problem with me "working"-- And I guess he only considers sexual stuff "working". And literally the most embarrassing thing happened today:
My boyfriend went to the store, and I message X back saying hope work was good, what are you doing for dinner/I'm making pasta, the boyfriend ran to the hardware store. He asks if he can call, I say sure. He calls, the boyfriend comes home, and I say, I have to go, the boyfriend is home. I'm not hiding anything, after all. I THOUGHT I hung up the phone (err, app).... Boyfriend yells at me, telling me I'm getting scammed, this guy is taking up too much time, why doesn't he take you private so you get paid per minute, and didn't I talk to him enough last night? And he's really bitching at me, and I'm like, nooo, we don't do anything sexual, I'm not hiding anything, and explain not everyone wants to go to privates, sometimes men like to show off how well they tip in public, and how he makes up 50% of my income, and thank God I'm not drilling a dildo in me, and I'm pulling a long con, don't worry. It was pretty much a full on argument with shop lingo thrown in.
I sit back on the bed and realized the CALL IS STILL ONGOING. Like. I am still sooooo embarrassed. I message him and ask if he heard the convo, and he said he did. I said I'm so embarrassed, he said no need to be, we'll talk on CB.
So I broadcast, things are going well, he says he's going to bed, really no need to be embarrassed, he doesn't want me to get in trouble. Tip wise and conversation wise, all fine. He comes back 30 mins later and says he's not sure about this. He wants a drama free life, and I say I totally understand. I joke that most tippers only last about 3 months (I told him this awhile ago), it was probably a good time to make a clean cut, and I guess I need to go "fishing" again (for a whale). For the record, he's okay with this lingo, and likes a good hustle.
So... I don't know what will happen. My boyfriend feels cheated on emotionally, for the first time in 4 years. He won't admit it, but that's why he freaked out like that. My "whale" isn't comfortable being 50% of my income, and said he'd still drop in from time to time. Who knows... I'm mad at my boyfriend for acting like that. Mr X said (after he "broke up" with me) that he wonders if I'll still talk to him without the money, like it would be an interesting test or something. Mr X sent me some mula to go clothes shopping a days before this fiasco (cheap, fun stuff) so I said I'd at least message him with pics and whatnot. Sorry this was long, I had to vent and tell someone... Any advice?
My boyfriend went to the store, and I message X back saying hope work was good, what are you doing for dinner/I'm making pasta, the boyfriend ran to the hardware store. He asks if he can call, I say sure. He calls, the boyfriend comes home, and I say, I have to go, the boyfriend is home. I'm not hiding anything, after all. I THOUGHT I hung up the phone (err, app).... Boyfriend yells at me, telling me I'm getting scammed, this guy is taking up too much time, why doesn't he take you private so you get paid per minute, and didn't I talk to him enough last night? And he's really bitching at me, and I'm like, nooo, we don't do anything sexual, I'm not hiding anything, and explain not everyone wants to go to privates, sometimes men like to show off how well they tip in public, and how he makes up 50% of my income, and thank God I'm not drilling a dildo in me, and I'm pulling a long con, don't worry. It was pretty much a full on argument with shop lingo thrown in.
I sit back on the bed and realized the CALL IS STILL ONGOING. Like. I am still sooooo embarrassed. I message him and ask if he heard the convo, and he said he did. I said I'm so embarrassed, he said no need to be, we'll talk on CB.
So I broadcast, things are going well, he says he's going to bed, really no need to be embarrassed, he doesn't want me to get in trouble. Tip wise and conversation wise, all fine. He comes back 30 mins later and says he's not sure about this. He wants a drama free life, and I say I totally understand. I joke that most tippers only last about 3 months (I told him this awhile ago), it was probably a good time to make a clean cut, and I guess I need to go "fishing" again (for a whale). For the record, he's okay with this lingo, and likes a good hustle.
So... I don't know what will happen. My boyfriend feels cheated on emotionally, for the first time in 4 years. He won't admit it, but that's why he freaked out like that. My "whale" isn't comfortable being 50% of my income, and said he'd still drop in from time to time. Who knows... I'm mad at my boyfriend for acting like that. Mr X said (after he "broke up" with me) that he wonders if I'll still talk to him without the money, like it would be an interesting test or something. Mr X sent me some mula to go clothes shopping a days before this fiasco (cheap, fun stuff) so I said I'd at least message him with pics and whatnot. Sorry this was long, I had to vent and tell someone... Any advice?
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