HELL NAW!!!! LOLOL!!! I made up in my mind when I started camming that I would NEVER cross the cyber-line and meet a fan in person...but that's because I cherish my personal life (the REAL and rather boring me) so much. But if you plan on doing something like this with your boyfriend I would ABSOLUTELY charge extra for it...maybe quote him a high enough price for a pair of panties that he will change his mind and ask you to put them in the mail. Say you typically charge $20 for a day worn pair...I'd charge him an extra $40 as a meet and greet surcharge. Put it this way, the time spent traveling to meet up and chatting a bit with this fan is taking away from the time you could be online booking other shows. If he's willing to pay....PERFECT!
