ArubaJasmine
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Meeting A Guy from camming
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Meeting A Guy from camming
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AngelaSommer
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I have (before the damn FOSTA law). We had visited via Kik for a long time, then talked on the phone several times. I knew his personal information and looked him up on several sites including the state that he lives in "case net" (any legal actions), and found him to be who he seemed to be. Nice guy, professional, etc. He even flew quite a distance, and I even stayed at the same hotel in a separate room. We had a wonderful time. He is still a good friend, however, spending a couple days with him, I realized some personality flaws that I would consider quite disheartening if I were to seek a IRL relationship with him. First, he made it his mission to meet cam models or those in the industry. He is obsessed with sex workers and traveled world wide to meet them! He also had a cache of pictures and videos from almost all of them. He couldn't wait to share some of them with me, showing me "Lisa Deep Throat" or "Debbie Dildo" pictures that he had taken, and tell me how much he enjoyed this or that about each of them. It hit me that he'd be doing the same thing with another woman and share MY pictures, etc.
I am still in touch with him, on occasion. He wants to fly out and visit again but I am just not that excited about it. I didn't have romantic feelings about him, truthfully, because I am old enough ("mature") to know that meeting a client usually doesn't end well, either because of disappointment, or because he/she is a wackadoodle.
Best of luck and please be safe. Be sure to vet the guy through as many resources online as you can. Even if you live in the same town, get a hotel room. Have your own escape place in case the guy is not what you expect. Be sure to tell a friend, too. I had a girlfriend call me both days I was with him just to "check in". I told him that, too. Who wouldn't do something like that nowadays? He was perfectly fine with it and even said it was a good idea. Let him know you take precautions. Trust your gut and be safe. Let us know how it goes & if the person you believe him to be is truly who he is.
I am still in touch with him, on occasion. He wants to fly out and visit again but I am just not that excited about it. I didn't have romantic feelings about him, truthfully, because I am old enough ("mature") to know that meeting a client usually doesn't end well, either because of disappointment, or because he/she is a wackadoodle.
Best of luck and please be safe. Be sure to vet the guy through as many resources online as you can. Even if you live in the same town, get a hotel room. Have your own escape place in case the guy is not what you expect. Be sure to tell a friend, too. I had a girlfriend call me both days I was with him just to "check in". I told him that, too. Who wouldn't do something like that nowadays? He was perfectly fine with it and even said it was a good idea. Let him know you take precautions. Trust your gut and be safe. Let us know how it goes & if the person you believe him to be is truly who he is.
AngelaSommer
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Actually, I will not talk about meeting customers off cam sites but I will be addressing the whole sugar baby thing. Strictly, I will discuss the whole sugar baby/sugar daddy relationship.
1. First, you need to make sure that you want an arrangement online or offline? You know, you can be an online sugar baby and get between 1500 to 3500 dollars per month depending on what you guys arrange? Please charge him extra for stuff like anal and dp. Also charge him extra for more emotional stuff. If he wants to take you off market as an cam model, then you need to tell him to match your cam model salary.
Just note: These arrangements are rare but they can be arranged with the right man.
2. If you're hellbent on meeting him off cam; verify his information and his employment. Use verifyhim and national blacklist.com. Make sure he has enough money to pay for the whole month and he's not an psycho.
3. Meet in an public place and choose an at least middle-class restaurant for your first day. Don't go to high-end steakhouses until an couple of meetings unless he comes from the higher class already.
4. Do discuss your financial arrangement after an couple of dates. Typical, I would say 1800 per month for non-sexual relationships, clothes, and jewelry (These are more emotional involved relationships. Often men who want non-sexual relationships are super lonely and do not mind you playing the role). 3500 plus for sexual relationships. clothes, and jewelry.You can also get him to pay for student loans and so forth if you want to forfeit the whole clothes thing. 5000 for fetish...for higher than 5000 per month...that's more sexual or emotional involved. Hold off on cars and property for now. Be care of the whole diamond tennis bracelet (Those offers tend to be traps to cage you)
Personally, I believe that you should keep your arrangement online and have him pay you to take you "off market."
1. First, you need to make sure that you want an arrangement online or offline? You know, you can be an online sugar baby and get between 1500 to 3500 dollars per month depending on what you guys arrange? Please charge him extra for stuff like anal and dp. Also charge him extra for more emotional stuff. If he wants to take you off market as an cam model, then you need to tell him to match your cam model salary.
Just note: These arrangements are rare but they can be arranged with the right man.
2. If you're hellbent on meeting him off cam; verify his information and his employment. Use verifyhim and national blacklist.com. Make sure he has enough money to pay for the whole month and he's not an psycho.
3. Meet in an public place and choose an at least middle-class restaurant for your first day. Don't go to high-end steakhouses until an couple of meetings unless he comes from the higher class already.
4. Do discuss your financial arrangement after an couple of dates. Typical, I would say 1800 per month for non-sexual relationships, clothes, and jewelry (These are more emotional involved relationships. Often men who want non-sexual relationships are super lonely and do not mind you playing the role). 3500 plus for sexual relationships. clothes, and jewelry.You can also get him to pay for student loans and so forth if you want to forfeit the whole clothes thing. 5000 for fetish...for higher than 5000 per month...that's more sexual or emotional involved. Hold off on cars and property for now. Be care of the whole diamond tennis bracelet (Those offers tend to be traps to cage you)
Personally, I believe that you should keep your arrangement online and have him pay you to take you "off market."