Need some good advice, getting frustrated and want to give up!

SasshaRed

Sr. Member
Hi everyone. Well obviously, I am new to camming. It has been a couple of weeks. So far I have made about $300 in maybe 3 weeks I believe. I don't have a lot of time or privacy to get on (living with parents at the moment) and I do have a job during the day. I have heard about women quitting their jobs, then making good money camming for a living. Im not sure how they do it. My main reason for doing this, as strange as it may sound, is so that I can live near my kids. That's an entirely different story but im dealing with an ex husband who has a lot of money and has my kids. And yes, BTW, I have the state where he lives and the state where I live blocked on the website.

Im not a supermodel, Im not super skinny, but im not obese, and I believe I have a very nice face. I have gotten some very, very nice compliments on my smile, my eyes, my boobs, my butt especially, and the favorite of all, the pussy. They say it looks tight. Sooo im not doubting that these guys think im attractive. That does not seem to be the problem. There just seems to be so much competition, especially when your main time for camming is on the weekends. I am seriously asking for helps here, because I KNOW all kinds of women are making good money with this, despite their body size , breast size, butt size, etc. All types.

So a typical night when I go into a room. I do get a few "regulars" who love seeing me and I get some tips. Though sometimes these regulars come in and they say they cant tip, they are light on funds, etc. Ok, so basically though, my room has not been getting very full. I do not know how to get people to click on my room. I am not getting the title "new model" anymore in the search so that may be making a huge difference. I have been trying to talk to other models on the site, but none of them are really anxious to talk. That's why I decided a forum might be best.

Anyway, so I go in the room. Im usually wearing a sexy bra, tank top, thong, etc to start..... I put the normal type of topic like boobs 20 tokens, butt 30 tokens, pussy 40 tokens. I might try to do a tip countdown that says (this number of tokens to get me to masturbate in room). I never get to the amount, I tried like 400 tokens. Then I might say tips for requests! Private and group welcome! I try to get creative, but I suppose this is just the typical thing. None of this seems to be working.

Ideally I don't want to strip down, show them my pussy, finger myself, masturbate etc, right away and just give a show because why would they bother tipping? I guess I am trying to figure out the right balance between not showing enough, showing too much , etc. I also am very friendly to everyone and am very grateful when I receive tips. I try to keep conversation going, but honestly, do they even want to talk about anything but sex ? Then they will ask me to Skype or give a show in public "just this one time" or they'll pay me when they get more tokens, bla bla bla.

So Id like to know what I can do different because I see the money making potential here, but I am clueless to figure out what the heck I need to differently. Is there a way to make myself show up higher in the search results? I think it is sorted by number of viewers. Would it be smart to have a screenname starting with an A to better find me ? I read that somewhere. Should I have a closeup face pic of me instead of a farther away pic in bra and panties? Lots of suggestions from reading online and I even watched the movie Cam Girlz and theyre doing great. Good ideas. But some of it im not into like the ball gags, nipple clamps, spanking with a paddle until my butt is bruised all to hell. Then of course theres also those who find other women to be on cam with them. I want to do this but I honestly don't have a lot of friends where I live and then to find another woman who is willing to do this is tough

Sorry this is so long, but it would mean everything to me to get some tips from some of you who are doing well with this and have it somewhat figured out! Thanks so much and I look forward to hearing some replies!
 

SasshaRed

Sr. Member
mm Hi
1st of all i don't know where you cam, but i think you need to try other sites too. i'm not doing very good myself, but being on more sites is helpful. maybe pvt based sites would be better for you, because from my understanding you are working on a token based site..and those can be pretty challenging especially for new girls.
you have a lot of tips here in tools and you can find a site that suits you using the camsite picker. you can also offer skype shows and for that you must place an add on a listing site, suck as skyprivate, cammodeldirectory,camgirlcollective etc.

i don't really have any tips for what to do there..on the site where you are..sounds like you're doing everything right already.

since you only have little time for camming you can keep in touch with your regulars on twitter, or you can sell your kik and snapchat. you might not be doing a fortune of that, but every little bit helps.

Good luck!
 
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