New & Not Really Sure..

[SasshaRed]

So this is something I would like to atleast try. i'm not worried about people finding out or anything like that, and I find i'm more confident online dealing with people anywho.

I just have one or two hook ups.


1. I have a partner of 5 years + and I just can't imagine him being ok with it. Our lives are completely entwined, however I'm not stupid, I need to make money and currently in RL I work full time and I'm not making ends meet. I have done a bit of research, and this type of job (on paper anyway) would suit me down to the ground. But its not something I know how to approach with him, for you guys living with long term partners etc, how did you go about telling them? Or did you? I realize if I ended up doing this that I would of course be single as far as online was concerned, which is fine with me, but again for him, I dunno.

2. I had a baby 3 years ago and my body isn't perfect, I am slim - but I still have a teeny jelly belly (well I don't think its teeny, but hey you never do!) I'm assuming that will only put people off. How do you guys get around your own body hookups?

I feel ridiculous even writing this up, like its a pipe dream or something, never gonna happen. How did you guys get started? What did you do for your first show? i'm really looking for more information to see how this can be done by just your average Josephine?

 

[SasshaRed]

Hi and welcome! I hope that you'll like working as a camgirl, if you are indeed decided to try this job.
I understand your concerns, I really do. I am far from being perfect myself, body wise - I have had a surgery that left my belly with a huge and ugly scar on, and besides that I've gained a lot of weight due to some medical issues, so my belly is far from being flat and toned lol. But you know what? The best customers will be there, with you, not because of how your belly looks like, but because you understand their fetishes, you accept them, you treat them decently, and because you have a personality. Of course, many guys will only criticize you, try to laugh at you (especially when you will not give them a free performance, and you'll ask for payment first ) or just troll you. Don't pay attention to them - you'll get only 2 minute shows from this type of people, anyway.
Regarding your relationship, it's pretty complicated. If he really cares about you, he'll understand your job too, and he'll be supportive. If not...