Victim of love bombing

prettygirl000

Jr. Member
I’ve been chatting with a cam model for almost a year now. Randomly I stumbled upon a post here that after reading through I realized was talking about the exact same person. He was trying to figure out if this girl actually liked him, same as me. Seeing someone describe the same thing I went through finally helped me break free of her control, so I decided to post this on the off chance it helps someone else.

I don’t know if I’m allowed to call her out by username but I’ll just give the details that helped me figure it out. I met her on tinder (the other guy said plenty of fish so I assume she’s using multiple apps) and after a brief conversation she had me follow her Instagram. There she revealed she’s a cam model on the site imlive.com and tried to get me to do a private show. I had never heard of the site so I was cautious, but I liked her and the site appeared legit so I eventually gave in. At some point she moved our conversations to telegram and I started to believe I might be more than just a customer to her.

She is Colombian but claimed to live about 40 minutes from me in Southern California. The other user said she claimed to be in Detroit so I know she’s just picking random locations to make people think she’s nearby. Her sob story is that her aunt has kidney failure and she needs money to pay for the medical bills. She also claimed to not have a phone, but borrows her aunt’s to chat. She only chats during the afternoon and evening when she’s live on the site.

Anyway I eventually told her I love her (stupid I know) and she began to say the same. She made many promises to eventually meet but whenever I pushed the matter she would get upset and say she was too busy working 24/7 for her aunt. She would very heavily guilt me and make me feel like I was stressing her out. Also claimed I was the only person she talked to outside of the site, but this was obviously not true.

So through some google searching I found the mentioned post. I pretty much knew it all along but I was scared of the off chance I was wrong about things. I finally deleted my account on the site and told her I knew the truth. She continued to deny and guilt me but I know it had to be done. So that’s my story, hopefully it can help at least one other person.
 

classycarolyn

Jr. Member
Man, I don't know how people have the time/energy to run these scams...
if I had half that effort into honest cam work I feel like I'd be rich :haha:
 
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