Sorry but for everybody's sake, just use your mental filter. There is all kind of people everywhere, and we just are expose to interact to much more people due to what we do, compare someone having a typical 9-5 job.
Learn to just care when it matters, to blink and move on when it doesnt worth your time and energy. You should know better, if you don't yet, you have to ASAP. You know what you do, what you worth, why you do xyz, and its seriously draining your personal energy and time to care what everybody can judge about. Pick the battles that are worth it. Nobody can please everybody. There will always be people commenting, judging, pointing fingers... so what? Its something I was already dealing with when I was less than 10 years old. People don't change. You can't change people. What matters is what you do for yourself and how you grow and learn to deal in a sea of people with different view, backgrounds, opinions... And yes, big news, a lot of people are hypocrite and things often single sided. Well that's what most people are. None of it is new. I feel bad for these that never seen it in their life and just facing it now and never realized it before and learned to deal with it before. This is the world for you, cam model or not. You can be judge for what you eat, wear, sound like, look like, no matter who you are, where you live, what you do...
Save yourself the trouble, and learn to filter the negative stuff and focus on the good stuff, and do your thing, and do not waste more time with all that stuff that is just plain normality (unfortunatly)
Sorry... don't mean to be too direct, its just for everybody's best to approach reality as it is, to minimize the damage, and the earlier the better. Its a matter of perspective, and like anything, the more you experience one thing, the better you get at it.
Of course, at times, it gets hard to get let all comments get to you, and in time of needs, its nice to be able to talk with others here and share these moments of frustratrions and vulnerability. Because we are all in this together. But building resentment, frustration and anger towards people that are just who they are, whom you can't change, isn't helping in any way. its just a reality to face and deal with and its part of life mastery; to know how to handle this for your best interest.
Do your thing, be happy. Lots of people enjoy you, and you should just enjoy yourself. All you can do is be the best you can be, And as cam performers, we do more good than bad in this world (underrated actually). Wishing you all the best
