I used it for a while but it was a huge waste of time as just tons of freeloaders trying to get free shows, and nasty perverts. Their messaging system and forums suck, and I ended up wasting hours a day just posting and replying to messages that were pointless. And I got tired of self-proclaimed "Doms" asking me if I was submissive. I made it very clear in my profile that I wasn't submissive. I am a switch, basically I like to top from the bottom. I am a masochist with a dominant personality. They don't get it because they really don't know jack about the BDSM lifestyle. Their little peabrains can't comprehend that D/s and SM are two separate things. Therefore, even if I WERE submissive, I would never let any of those asshats dom me because they have absolutely no clue what they are doing.
