Good thing..... or is it?

erinallen

Full Member
I'll make this as concise as I can, but stay with me :)
Have been a regular of an amazing model for several years, great chemistry and always a fantastic time visiting.
Couple of months ago she got a new day job, but carried on camming during her evenings.
Haven't been able to visit her much since then, as our schedules clash.
She can't maintain doing both jobs, and recently told me she would stop camming altogether at the end of January.
I'm really happy for her (she landed her dream job) and wished her every success.
I visited more in the last week while I've been on vacation, and we had some incredible privates.
Guess on a selfish level, I was making the most of the time before she stops this job.

Anyway, she just sent me a DM and suggested that we keep up the site contact after she stops working, so we can have fun on the weekends when both are available.
Her suggestion is that she will create a new account, I will get age-verified to accept tokens, and then we both contribute an equal amount of tokens and use them to tip each other.
I guess like a password show, or even a private, but not pay-per-minute because it would just be 2 users interacting. And the tokens would go back and forth between us, so only a one-time purchase.
She offered to buy me a Diamo to go with her Lush so our tips would work both ways.

So..... initial thoughts were, what a fun idea, let's do it. Means the great times continue.
But now I'm having misgivings. It's not a trust issue with the sharing of a decent token balance, but all about the fact that this stops being a traditional cam site arrangement, and I don't know what it then becomes.
On a simple level, it's 2 consenting adults meeting up to chat, listen to music, laugh and tip the living daylights out of each other.
But IDK...... am I'm over thinking? It feels like crossing an invisible boundary line towards attachment rather than transactional, and I'm not sure that's a good idea for either of us.

Also, very aware this isn't how sites are supposed to operate; need to recheck the TOS to make sure there is nothing about this idea that breaks rules.
 

ava

Sr. Member
For me it feels weird, I don't know what to call this kind of arrangement, and it seems weird if you are both going to be transferring tokens back and forth, if anything that will look very suspicious for you both and might get you both banned, won't it? Why would she need to send it back to you anyway? What is the point of you buying this one-time payment show for life, then her giving the tokens back, then you back to here the next weekend, and so on? You're allowed to do password shows. I can kind of understand so it doesn't get you in trouble so you are both going on there for free and into a password show, and maybe so it doesn't look like you have paid her off site and get her in trouble.


But if you are doing an arrangement like this, Skype would be easier, if you're not giving her any money so no worries about needing to find somewhere safe to pay her.


The whole thing just seems odd to me. Why would she want to go through the whole process of you both age verifying and tipping back and forth, instead of somewhere like Skype? I know sex is not mean tot be on Skype, but let's face it, it's half of the calls on that program
 
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