Okay so I have a listing setup for a mature woman to do dominant joi only. It only has some sexually explicit steps in paragraph form on doing this, then doing that, etc. Then I ended it by saying if you wish to finish blah blah blah type of thing. The idea is for the person to not use all of what I wrote in words alone to do the whole thing of course without paying me. I need to practice and do a recorded audio for sale, but this is in an ad. It is a lead in enough for him to get the idea of how I approach it so if he likes it then call me pretty much.
Today a customer by the handle of bman69 (Brian) calls. This is a close enough description of the conversation. I'm not perfect but wanted to make sure you know this in case he calls you. My many years of life's experience has dealt with men doing this countless times too.
bman69 (1) Hello this is Brian. Where are you from?
me (2) (first thought is here we go immediately asking where am I from Smiley
so I know this is probably not going to go well) I sarcastically said the United States knowing he is just fishing for my id without giving me any reason why.
bman69 (3) haha well do you do camming?
me (4) Yes I do sometimes
bman69 (5) Are you available right now?
me ( 6) No I'm not camera ready and that is not what is in the ad. Did you read what I wrote in my ad?
bman69 (7) yes (then he said whatever and then) okay goodbye
After we hung up I wrote to the guy telling him to look for a lady who has something in her ad that relates to what he is looking for, but for him to also make sure to follow whatever the person wrote if he wants a successful interaction.
I'm all for pleasing a customer, but it is very annoying when a customer immediately tries to manipulate what he wants right away, while NOT relating to the ad that he responded to. I don't accept such BS from guys. It also puts me off guard and in defense mode. I know that guys who try their control tactics expect mind readers and do not accept anything else from the woman. I can't even get along with such people and keep them out of my life. When they are customers I can't be successful with them either. I'm not a mind reader, I'm an interactive communicator, where the customer has to relate with some common sense manner, not just try to control me like I'm a robot.
When you run into these types of guys don't be surprised if you fail with them. Please never meet them in person either. They are dangerous only using you as a game piece to test their control tactics upon you.
Today a customer by the handle of bman69 (Brian) calls. This is a close enough description of the conversation. I'm not perfect but wanted to make sure you know this in case he calls you. My many years of life's experience has dealt with men doing this countless times too.
bman69 (1) Hello this is Brian. Where are you from?
me (2) (first thought is here we go immediately asking where am I from Smiley
so I know this is probably not going to go well) I sarcastically said the United States knowing he is just fishing for my id without giving me any reason why.bman69 (3) haha well do you do camming?
me (4) Yes I do sometimes
bman69 (5) Are you available right now?
me ( 6) No I'm not camera ready and that is not what is in the ad. Did you read what I wrote in my ad?
bman69 (7) yes (then he said whatever and then) okay goodbye
After we hung up I wrote to the guy telling him to look for a lady who has something in her ad that relates to what he is looking for, but for him to also make sure to follow whatever the person wrote if he wants a successful interaction.
I'm all for pleasing a customer, but it is very annoying when a customer immediately tries to manipulate what he wants right away, while NOT relating to the ad that he responded to. I don't accept such BS from guys. It also puts me off guard and in defense mode. I know that guys who try their control tactics expect mind readers and do not accept anything else from the woman. I can't even get along with such people and keep them out of my life. When they are customers I can't be successful with them either. I'm not a mind reader, I'm an interactive communicator, where the customer has to relate with some common sense manner, not just try to control me like I'm a robot.
When you run into these types of guys don't be surprised if you fail with them. Please never meet them in person either. They are dangerous only using you as a game piece to test their control tactics upon you.
