No Fap Challenge for Men

[nicolebella]

Have you guys heard of it? I've looked into a little bit and now I feel a little bad. I feel like a ton of men would benefit from "no fapping".

Obviously, it is not my fault if people have a porn addiction. But researching it just made me feel a little weird? Like I could be considered a drug or enabler in some way?

Your thoughts?

 

[rozlynn]

That's a tough one. I've experience the effects firsthand of what "too much porn" can do to some guys; aggressive behaviour, high expectations, and just generally bad sex. It is solely their responsibility to get better.

At the same time, I view camming a bit separately from most mainstream porn. They are interacting with us live, and while many of them still view us as sex robots, I feel we have the power to challenge and alter their views. Though, it is definitely not our job to educate them!

What really gets to me, is the guys who use camming as a way to simply socialize. I have a harder time grappling with the lonely guys who just want to talk, than the guys who come in looking for something wild.