prettygirl000
Jr. Member
I'm struggling financially, about to lose my home this month. I re-started camming the other night because
I am in dire need of funds and want to continue regular camming to keep a roof and food to eat.
I try to be friendly to people and welcome them in. There is one grey colored person who has never
once tipped, yet continues requesting from me and feels insulted/upset if I do not do so. I don't have a
lot of chatters or viewers I guess because I'm low on the todem (?) being just back? I also don't know
what title ( suggestions? ) to put/hash tags.
Greys - What do I do about grey people who are there chatting but want requests? Is it rude to suggest if they want
something to choose from the tip menu? or roll dice? etc? What do I do when they are upset and say they feel
ignored?
Down Time - What do I do during down time when people just pass through? I feel like.. why give a free show and
go full nude when no one is there to tip? And theres only a few people? I don't know what to do with myself and feel
awkward. I also don't have interactive toys (no funds to purchase).
DM's - Some people request a dm. Once I do, some are helpful and suggest add a tip menu etc..
(which I forgot to do). After their help they said, "now you should do this..." At first I thought they
meant add it to my list.. but they requested it. I did it just once. Something simple. But feel very
overwhelmed.. as this person seemed to be a pro and probably took advantage of me as they
didn't even tip (this was not a grey user). I don't know how to deal with these types.
Outside Contact / Name Insults - I think the websites don't want us talking to people outside of it to make
income right? I feel uncomfortable with that, yet get requests to do so. I know some people have certain
fetish.. but I don't like being called "slut" etc and other words. Is this something we post somewhere what we
do/dont like? People ask what are my limits.. I have no idea what to reply with or what that necessarily means.
I just want to be respected..
Goals - If I make a goal titled: "Need to Pay Rent" and want to raise $800 (it's way more than this).. Do I put
the full amount of tokens needed to reach this goal? Or do I split it into several small amounts that keeps re-setting?
Mail Boxes - Do any of you get mail boxes that people can send stuff to you? Example: Toys (they may want to see
you use), clothes (they'd want you to wear), etc? And just put it under a stage name? And/Or create a wishlist somewhere
that those items are shipped to that mail box?
I appreciate any suggestions/guidance. Also, are there cam coaches? Is this an existing thing? I am struggling
in every way, especially mentally and keeping my composure with so much stress is challenge. Thank you :h:
-xoxo-
Also, thankful for Amber not de-activate me. Been going through a lot. This is the only site I come to for
guidance and really appreciate everyone's posts/helpfulness.
I am in dire need of funds and want to continue regular camming to keep a roof and food to eat.
I try to be friendly to people and welcome them in. There is one grey colored person who has never
once tipped, yet continues requesting from me and feels insulted/upset if I do not do so. I don't have a
lot of chatters or viewers I guess because I'm low on the todem (?) being just back? I also don't know
what title ( suggestions? ) to put/hash tags.
Greys - What do I do about grey people who are there chatting but want requests? Is it rude to suggest if they want
something to choose from the tip menu? or roll dice? etc? What do I do when they are upset and say they feel
ignored?
Down Time - What do I do during down time when people just pass through? I feel like.. why give a free show and
go full nude when no one is there to tip? And theres only a few people? I don't know what to do with myself and feel
awkward. I also don't have interactive toys (no funds to purchase).
DM's - Some people request a dm. Once I do, some are helpful and suggest add a tip menu etc..
(which I forgot to do). After their help they said, "now you should do this..." At first I thought they
meant add it to my list.. but they requested it. I did it just once. Something simple. But feel very
overwhelmed.. as this person seemed to be a pro and probably took advantage of me as they
didn't even tip (this was not a grey user). I don't know how to deal with these types.
Outside Contact / Name Insults - I think the websites don't want us talking to people outside of it to make
income right? I feel uncomfortable with that, yet get requests to do so. I know some people have certain
fetish.. but I don't like being called "slut" etc and other words. Is this something we post somewhere what we
do/dont like? People ask what are my limits.. I have no idea what to reply with or what that necessarily means.
I just want to be respected..
Goals - If I make a goal titled: "Need to Pay Rent" and want to raise $800 (it's way more than this).. Do I put
the full amount of tokens needed to reach this goal? Or do I split it into several small amounts that keeps re-setting?
Mail Boxes - Do any of you get mail boxes that people can send stuff to you? Example: Toys (they may want to see
you use), clothes (they'd want you to wear), etc? And just put it under a stage name? And/Or create a wishlist somewhere
that those items are shipped to that mail box?
I appreciate any suggestions/guidance. Also, are there cam coaches? Is this an existing thing? I am struggling
in every way, especially mentally and keeping my composure with so much stress is challenge. Thank you :h:
-xoxo-
Also, thankful for Amber not de-activate me. Been going through a lot. This is the only site I come to for
guidance and really appreciate everyone's posts/helpfulness.
hugs!
