Phone sex burnout

[ameliafate]

Hi!

So, last December I made a profile on NiteFlirt and started doing phone sex for the first time ever. I made my listings, quickly got a regular I really liked talking to because most of our conversations were SFW, about books, writing, travelling and just life in general. Sadly, I had to take a break in April and May to focus on my university exams and he disappeared. I tried to entice him to come back but it never worked.

Fast forward to the present moment. I've been trying to do my best on NiteFlirt but I just feel unmotivated and burnt out, mainly because I keep attracting the wrong type of clientele and it is so draining. I'm a natural submissive and the girl next door type, but at the same time don't want to talk to macho dominant men which is why I don't have a sub listing on NF. At the moment, I have 3 listings - one is a GFE experience type of thing, one is FinDom and one is a confession line. Playing with finsubs was a lot of fun for a while but lately I've been attracting all other kinds of subs whose kinks I don't care about at all. For example, I attracted someone who is into sissification which is not my cup of tea at all, but I feel kind of cornered and like I have to engage with them because otherwise I won't earn any money.

I don't know what to do anymore. I don't feel like logging onto NiteFlirt at all because of attracting the wrong type of people or just having crickets all together, and I can't stop worrying about losing bid money because whilst I do make it back, I don't earn nearly as much as I once used to. Any idea what to do with this?

 

[jikey]

Personally, I never got burned out from during phone sex in 18 years. Why? Because I do it for money and write my characters to make money. In addition, I simply don't agree to do everything for money. For example, I don't accept SPH or BBC because those fetishes always attract cheapos for me. If I do extreme calls, I do them for three times the normal rate. Because I did extreme calls at 18 and 19 years old.
Doing things you don't enjoy and getting to overly emotional over clientele can lead to burn out. Also if you put too much of yourself into phone sex...you can get burn out. Despite what phone sex newbies say...customers don't want the real you as much as they want the idealistic version of you. Phone Sex isn't camming and the less you are yourself...the better. Customers lie and you should too. It's the name of the game.
That's why I have characters because I was taught by older phone sex operators back the day not to get too much emotional. Just block and move on but you report if you need too. Also we got packages telling us every fetish, how approach every fetish, how to write characters, not get too "real" but I think they only give that to dispatch girls now.
By the way, submissive profiles often attracted super aggressive men and toxic men. It always has and it always will. I have several submissive characters but I never was natural submissive in real life. They make good money because I play submissive like everything else with aggressive glee. Just my two cents.