Start with accepting that men are raw in all environments

ariadarling

Jr. Member
Advice to any lady who has only dealt with this type of "multiple guys" type of environment. If you never worked where they simply relax and just do or talk about whatever they think about most at that moment such as in a bar for example this might apply also. I had previously worked as a dancer and stripper so my brain just goes into that mode when dealing with the raw male attitudes I guess you can call them. I have a love/hate relationship with those attitudes so many times I need advice from the outside world too. Because of those male attitudes, it is also why every single female deserves whatever security protection that works for her and on her terms.

If you do not have any experience dealing with them for whatever reason in your life I believe this can be really tough. It took me many years to realize something has always been very obvious which is that the male emotions and sounds that he does when the point of no return occurs is unique to that male, but not unique to the concept that he does do this. I have not checked anything recently but based on many marketing materials, porn plots, vanilla movies, etc. you will never find one single male who reveals that emotional sound or show of pleasure when the end occurs. It is hidden by using the female in many ways for the purpose of advertising to the males in the world and also to protect them. I do not think that is right at all. It puts many females in danger as far as I'm concerned. Even the advertising for the male masturbation product uses the female blow-up doll in it without one male review about how pleasurable it is, or a male smiling because he loved it, etc. in the ad at all. I am simply pointing out this for you to think about as you meet strangers in this business.

My point is that all of this information provides you an insight as to how you can be uniquely special within your own shows because you know he is hiding this stuff from the world. Men seem to automatically attach to a lady for some unknown reason so many times. I know this so that is why I automatically ban him if he does even one thing that I alone object to on my terms because I am the person in my room who is taking care of my own emotional self, not him. You need to remember that for yourself too. It is really hard to not feel personal due to the content, however, you are still providing an image that they see on the screen of their device just like viewing a movie. If someone does not know you personally, or even if they do, you alone know yourself better than anyone else so only you can decide how to accept or ban who you talk to or not in your own personal space. I believe every single female has a human right to protect herself on her terms any way she wishes without needing any permission from anyone.

Think about how these things apply when you look into that camera in any situation. It is not easy and will always be a part of your life whenever you communicate with anyone so own whatever they see as your own. Balance what you want them to view you as relative to who you are in the image, video, or live stream they are viewing you in.

Good luck and don't take what they say or do personally. You are worth so much more. Always make them pay first. If they want something bad enough they will pay or else they are just playing head games to feed their ego so don't give in to that. If you don't give in to that it might help save a female out there somewhere when he learns that he needs to check on that ego in the mirror again.
 

lucymoonlight

Jr. Member
Men and women as emotional packages are no different.
We grew up differently, to serve unnatural purposes like monoghamy, marriage, workaholism, false gods worshipers, voters. There's a devious Master behind both our upbringing. Spot it. Overtake it.
We are left as grownups to clean our systems of ourselves and each other. As GoddessLexy and all of us do it.

Bottom line: we must understand each other more and be humble in learning new ways to love each other. Love is indeed always the answer. At times bullets are needed. I'm in for every evolution and revolution!
 
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