Lush is better for private sites because you get free chat.
Domi you can only use in paid chat.
But the best tip is to take the time to transmit as much time as you can during your novelty period, to get to know customers.
Many of them have only the fetish of meeting newbies, but others will stay with you after that period.
There is a difficult site because it is one of the best in the world, the competition is strong, so it is important not to waste this time in prominence.
Good luck!