How to handle guy who wants to meet?

[Suemmy]

I just got off a Niteflirt call with a guy who wants me to meet up with him and his wife for a CrossDresser night on the town. Traffic is slow for me so I don't want to lose him, but I am not interested at all in meeting in RL.
Luckily, they are several states away, so I can put it off, but I need suggestions on whether or not I should play this out or just tell him "no" right off...
Thanks...