LittleRedBunny
Full Member
I have been reading about BDSM for a while now and am truly intrigued and curious about this side of myself. HOWEVER the issue here is that I am trying to figure out where I belong in the "spectrum". Thats why I mentioned switch (not just in camlife but in my personal life cam has become the catalyst for me to explore this side of myself). The more I read.. the more the lines become blurred.
Cam has become a healthy means for me to explore my own sexual self, in a way I have not previously been able to...
My life partner brought the subject up this week when he asked if I am dom or sub (16 years together, and just starting to expand this in our own lives). I stated I was unsure. Shouldn't I naturally fall into a role or am missing something? I feel like my hand wants to be in "both cookie jars"
I find though that opinions of "switch" varies. Thanks for leading me in the right direction, and hopefully I figure out my place in this world of BDSM. xo!
Cam has become a healthy means for me to explore my own sexual self, in a way I have not previously been able to...
My life partner brought the subject up this week when he asked if I am dom or sub (16 years together, and just starting to expand this in our own lives). I stated I was unsure. Shouldn't I naturally fall into a role or am missing something? I feel like my hand wants to be in "both cookie jars"
I find though that opinions of "switch" varies. Thanks for leading me in the right direction, and hopefully I figure out my place in this world of BDSM. xo!
