KiluaThorn
Newbie
I’ve been wondering… is it weird that I don’t want regulars anymore,even though that’s kind of what we’re supposed to aim for?
But honestly, every time someone became a “regular,” things eventually got weird. At first, they’re super nice, supportive, generous… and then the control issues start. They want to meet up, get jealous over other users, or start acting like they own the room.
The last one really crossed a line: He called himself a “friend” then messaged another model in my name because one of her regulars had been hanging out in my room. I didn’t even know about it until she told me. When I removed him as a mod, he got offended and tried to get me banned out of spite.
And honestly? A lot of them don’t even understand that us being nice to them doesn’t mean we’re into them. It’s part of the job. Being friendly, playful, attentive. I mean that’s literally what we do. Doesn’t mean we’re secretly in love with you just because we smiled or remembered your username.
And the worst part? When things go south, they throw it in your face like “after all the tokens I spent on you…” Like our time, energy, and emotional labor suddenly mean nothing, and all that mattered was the transaction.
Since then, I honestly feel safer with random traffic than with so-called “fans.” Anyone else feel like this? Or found a way to deal with regulars who cross boundaries and act entitled?
But honestly, every time someone became a “regular,” things eventually got weird. At first, they’re super nice, supportive, generous… and then the control issues start. They want to meet up, get jealous over other users, or start acting like they own the room.
The last one really crossed a line: He called himself a “friend” then messaged another model in my name because one of her regulars had been hanging out in my room. I didn’t even know about it until she told me. When I removed him as a mod, he got offended and tried to get me banned out of spite.
And honestly? A lot of them don’t even understand that us being nice to them doesn’t mean we’re into them. It’s part of the job. Being friendly, playful, attentive. I mean that’s literally what we do. Doesn’t mean we’re secretly in love with you just because we smiled or remembered your username.
And the worst part? When things go south, they throw it in your face like “after all the tokens I spent on you…” Like our time, energy, and emotional labor suddenly mean nothing, and all that mattered was the transaction.
Since then, I honestly feel safer with random traffic than with so-called “fans.” Anyone else feel like this? Or found a way to deal with regulars who cross boundaries and act entitled?