So, what you tell you're doing for living?

[timothystokely]

I love to debate, and some days ago i went in a debate about a porn actress here that is doing it for 11 years, people mentality is horrible here, very close mind, sexually everything different will be criticized and theres a lot of hipocrisy, so, theres a guy just like that who is a colleague of my husband on the work who knows we have an open relation ship who criticizes a lot the adult industry, saying "how is possible some girls earn so much just for streaming, bla bla bla" but recently hes sending videos of all the girls he fuck and we're suspicious about the reasons he keep this videos, they're "normal" girls with normal jobs and turns that they dont know hes keeping that records, maybe publishing them or trying to earn some money threatening some of them, we dont know, but my husband just said to him: whats the point of criticize girls in adult industry all the time and do that?
So, he said "but im a guy" lol...
Here on my country theres a lot of criticism, hipocrisy and i wish one day i could speak about what we do openly like some girls in some countries can do.
What do you tell to all your family you do? Would you admit that you work on adult industry without feeling the fear of judgement?
I mean, im on the point that i dont care, if someone realises what i do i just dont care but im not yelling for the world what im doing, i keep discreet and low profile as my personality is like that, but i got so surprised with those mentalities lol

 

[erinallen]

Adult work, unfortunately, is still not acceptable as an honorable pursuit in most societies. And yes, guys that are so critical of us, are usually avid consumers!

I have been in this work, including shooting some porn, for over twelve years.
Personally, I have not been able to maintain a stable personal relationship. Sure guys initially say, they love what I do, until they don't! Adult work is threatening to most guys......actually, I don't readily admit my adult pursuits, but I try to sense a guys attitude and yes, his own use of adult web sites, not always easy!

I do have a full time, career type job, that surely helps, but I love the income that my adult work provides, plus I enjoy it!

So many guys, just don't understand, that much of what we do is acting. And that when I'm finished, there is nothing more that I desire than to be truly loved , and give it my all.

I only cam for about two hrs ea nite, I had a bf, that after a robust beginning, totally ignored me, until I was going to do a porn shoot, and when I got back home, he wanted to fuck all nite, when all I needed was sleep. Porn is hard work! Obviously, also an ex bf! He also thought camming was "dumb"!

Again a double standard! I'm personally not into an open relationship, but adult work is different than affairs.......

So now, I maintain a low profile, the pandemic certainly helped that.......so thankful for my toys......