There are a handful of topics on here right now that I've looked at where people are sassing each other pretty hard. What is going on?
We're all in this together, can I please ask you guys to chill with the sassycatting? I invited someone to join the site, but they saw some of the drama and peaced out. Guys, come on. It's not cool. :/
If you disagree with someone, agree to disagree, or debate POLITELY.
If someone was misinformed about something, tell them NICELY and explain to them what they were misinformed about. Also helps to screenshot/source/etc. Example of a NOT nice way to inform someone "UHM, are you kidding? You're wrong."
If you are writing a topic specifically to vent, and you just want condolences on your situation, SAY SO. If you don't people coming into the topic going "That never happened to me you must have done something wrong" then freaking say "I'M VENTING, IF YOU DISLIKE/DISARGREE WITH WHAT I WROTE PLEASE MOVE ON". People should be allowed to vent their feelings without a damn argument. Feelings can't be argued; they belong to that person alone.
This may seem really rant-y and off-putting, but I want this forum to stay a happy, safe, understanding place. Not where we argue about payment methods and marketing techniques.
We're all in this together, can I please ask you guys to chill with the sassycatting? I invited someone to join the site, but they saw some of the drama and peaced out. Guys, come on. It's not cool. :/
If you disagree with someone, agree to disagree, or debate POLITELY.
If someone was misinformed about something, tell them NICELY and explain to them what they were misinformed about. Also helps to screenshot/source/etc. Example of a NOT nice way to inform someone "UHM, are you kidding? You're wrong."
If you are writing a topic specifically to vent, and you just want condolences on your situation, SAY SO. If you don't people coming into the topic going "That never happened to me you must have done something wrong" then freaking say "I'M VENTING, IF YOU DISLIKE/DISARGREE WITH WHAT I WROTE PLEASE MOVE ON". People should be allowed to vent their feelings without a damn argument. Feelings can't be argued; they belong to that person alone.
This may seem really rant-y and off-putting, but I want this forum to stay a happy, safe, understanding place. Not where we argue about payment methods and marketing techniques.
