Do you warn others about the existing information about them on the internet? +cammer crush questions

First question/main topic:
I found a fellow cammer's dating profile where he posts his real first name, his real location (city-precise) and other revealing info. Definitely not an escort. I want to let him know that people can use this information against him, but am embarrassed to admit how I found his profile (I googled his cam name. Not sure what I expected to find, but I found out a lot about him-- a scary amount, to the point where I could find out his actual address if I tried).
And after all: he is an adult and should be aware of these consequences, but some people are careless and end up surprised at how people can put two and two together.
What would you do/have you done in this scenario?

Cammer crush question:
Uh, well, this is extremely humiliating for me to admit, so I'm posting this anonymously. I have a severe infatuation with the cammer mentioned above..
There were some small flirting here and there during his streams. After finding out some more of his hobbies (that he mentioned on stream), I sent a tip note and told him that we had a lot in common, and (jokingly) that it's a wonder why we're not "e-dating" already.

He sent me a PM later on with his number attached. Oh, boy. I didn't reciprocate, however, because I'm paranoid about these things and felt that it was all happening too quickly.
But after that action, it would be safe to assume that he has some sort of interest. Most likely physical-only, whereas I'm already thinking about how awkward and cute a first date with him would be like. And also some 'physical' fantasies, too. Creepy, right? Thank goodness that only WCG devs and I will ever know how creepy I really am Smiley.
So, my other questions are, how would you go about asking out a fellow cammer? And would you ever consider dating a fellow cammer? (Especially one as reckless as this man is with his info..)
 
Hi,
Thanks for sharing all of your thoughts and feelings. I love reading things that are "real".
I would go for it, life is too short to not do what you want to do. If it doesn't work out at least you won't spend your time wondering what if....
My question is: do you like the fantasy you have of him (he is a cammodel therefore may have a persona)or do you know the real person behind that at all? Is it the dating profile with the hobbies you have in common you are attracted to or both? Either way you could get to know the real person by interacting with him online for a bit, then dating offline.
Be careful that he doesn't look at you at as a "client" and just want tips from you since you already sent him the tip note and didn't talk to him through his dating profile.Make it clear that you are interested him on a personal level only and aren't going to be giving him money. Once that is clear & he shares your feelings, what would be wrong with dating him if his job doesn't bother you?

As far as his information being so public, maybe he has no reason to hide himself. Some people don't have kids, parents anymore or family members who would find them online. If he's a big strong guy maybe he doesn't care if someone finds him. LOL! It's really difficult to hide yourself online nowadays even without being a cammodel. If you ever get close enough to date him I would mention it, but otherwise I wouldn't. He's old enough to know.

Also, if it's moving too fast slow it down. You have the control after all. Please post and let us know how it goes. I love online romance stories!
 
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